22 More Tips About L-O-V-E

noreply@blogspirit.com (22) — Sun, 29 May 2005 08:20:00 +1000

The guy who loves his mom will be a good
boyfriend. Why? Because if he has
high respect for his mother, he will have high
respect for women.

Don't give everything away. Leave some things a
mystery. Guys love conquest. If you already give
your all, wala ng something to look forward
to sa relationship nyo. And the guy will become
kampante. Assure him of your love and
faithfulness, but warn him too: "umayos ka diyan!
You can lose me anytime...".

BIG PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs most is
love. What a guy needs most is respect. The most
important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy its
his ego.

Give your man his own time and space. Let him
have his time for his friends, sports, family, self,
and God. The relationship will grow old quickly if
lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss
you and you'll see how he will love you more. If the
guy naman is obsessed and just wants to
be with you all the time, tell him you cant respect
a "puppy" for long.

Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal
na kayo, there is always something fresh and
new.
Variety is the spice of life. Exciting baga?

"Making love" is better than just "having sex". And
true love "waits". Save your precious "gift" for
your
wedding night. Di nagiging tama ang mali, just
because uso naman and everyone's doing it. Be
iba.

Discover something you both like to do and enjoy
it TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na
magkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each other by
learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone,
yung effort nyo to try will go a looooong way to
understanding him later pag may disagreement
kayo.

Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh?
Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag may takot sa
Diyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na di ka nya
lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything
he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that
before you part after dates, with hands held and
eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe
me it's effective. Kailanman, di corny ang
magdasal.

Never think "mababago ko sya pag kami na...".
Only God can change a person, and only if the guy
wants to. Even God cannot steer parked cars.

Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical o
walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds
crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you
love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories
will be fun to recall later in life. The corniest
song o
gift o letter (aminin mo) ang laging kabog!

True love brings out the best in each other. Find
something good in your boyfriend and nurture it,
encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.

It's healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang maaayos ang
mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng
relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti.
Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you
fight. What matters is how often you make bati.
Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect
at laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! And
diba mas kilig yung malambing na... "uy, bati na
tayo...".

But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi
na lang manuyo o magsori. Choose the battles na
papatulan mo. The little issues, palampasin na.
Don't sweat the small stuff.

Daraan sa iba't-ibang stages ang love especially
pag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don't expect
him to be like nung una. 'Coz like a student, di na
ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-grade 2.
Change WILL happen... you both will change and
your love WILL change too. It's up to you na lang if
the change will be for the better or for the worse.
Life is about growth. Grow with it.

When break up comes and it's time to say
goodbye, don't doubt the love just because it didn't
last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man
nagtatagal, it doesn't mean na di na ito totoo.
Some good things are just never meant to last
forever

Love Quotes

noreply@blogspirit.com (22) — Sun, 29 May 2005 04:43:31 +1000

"i'm here to love you, to hold you in my arms and
to protect you. i'm here to learn from you and to
receive your love in return. i'm here coz there's no
other place to be."
---MESSAGE IN A BOTTLE

"Me? I'm scared of everything. I'm scared of what I
saw, of what I did, of who I am. And most of all, I'm
scared of
walking out of this room and never feeling the rest
of my whole life the way I feel when I'm with you."
---DIRTY DANCING

"When you kiss someone, everything around you
becomes hazy... and the only thing in focus is you
and this person... And you realize that this person
is the only person you should be kissing for the
rest of your life... And for one moment, you get,
this amazing gift... And you wanna laugh and you
wanna cry... Cuz you feel so lucky that you've
found it and so scared that it'll go away all at the
same time..."
---NEVER BEEN KISSED

"It's funny how we set qualifications for the right
person to love while at the back of our minds we
know that the
person we trully love will always be an exception"
---Ally McBeal

"how can you assume to be friends with someone
when all you think about when you look at him is
how much more you
really want?"
-joey, DAWSON'S CREEK

if two people love each other, but just cant seem to
put things together, when would that point be..
when one
would say enough is enough? NEVER.
---THE MEXICAN

"So this is love...so this is what makes life divine.
I'm all aglow, and now I know. The key to all
heaven is mine. My heart has wings, and I can fly.
I'll touch every star in the sky. So this is the
miracle, that I've been dreaming of... So this is
love."
---CINDERELLA

Don't you understand? That everything I do, I do for
you? Anything that might be special in me...is
you.
---GREAT EXPECTATIONS

One day, you look at the person and see more
than you did the day before, like a switch was
flickered somewhere.
And the person who was just a friend is suddenly
the only person you can imagine yourself with.
-Xfiles (series)
I feel like the best version of myself when i'm with
you... and that makes me doubt everything else.
---KEEPING THE FAITH

Is it possible to be just friends with someone i have
these sort of non-moderate feelings for?... Or am I
doomed
forever to just be in love and ultimately significantly
hurt?
-Felicity

"There are some people who meet that somebody
that they can never stop loving, no matter how hard
they try. I wouldn't expect you to understand that,
or even believe it, but trust me, there are some love
that don't go away. And maybe that makes them
crazy, but we should all be lucky to end up with
that somebody who has a little of that insanity.
Somebody who never lets go. Somebody who
cherishes you forever."
--- Ally Mc Beal

Dear Catherine,
I'm sorry I haven't talked to you in so long. I feel I've
been lost. No bearings, no compass. I kept
crashing into things, a little crazy I guess. I've
never been lost before. You were my true north. I
could always steer for home when you were my
home. Forgive me for being so angry when you left.
I still think some mistake's been made and I'm
waiting for God to take it back. But I'm doing better
now. The work helps me. Most of all, you help me.
You came into my dream last night with that smile
of yours that always held me like a lover, rocked
me like a child. All I remember from the dream is a
feeling of peace. I woke up with that feeling and
tried to keep it alive as long as I could.
I'm writing to tell you that I'm on a journey toward
that peace. And to tell you I'm sorry about so
many things. I'm sorry I didn't take better care of
you so that you never spent one minute being cold
or scared or sick. I'm sorry I didn't try harder to find
the words to tell you what I was feeling. I'm sorry I
never fixed the screen door. I fixed it now.
I'm sorry I ever fought with you. I'm sorry I didn't
apologize more. I was too proud. I'm sorry I didn't
bring you more compliments on everything you
wore and every way you fixed your hair. I'm sorry I
didn't hold on to you with so much strength that
even God couldn't pull you away.
All my love. G.
---MESSAGE IN A BOTTLE

"I love that you get cold when its 71 degrees out. I
love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a
sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle in your
nose when you're looking at me like i'm nuts. I love
that after i spend a day with you, i can still smell
your perfume on my clothes. and i love that you
are the last person i want to talk to before i go to
sleep at night. and it's not because i'm lonely, and
it's not because it's new Year's eve. i came here
tonight because when you realize you want to
spend the rest of your life with somebody, you
want the rest of your life to start as soon as
possible."
---WHEN HARRY MET SALLY

When you love someone,
And you love them with your heart,
It never disappears when you're apart.
When you love someone
And you've done all you can do,
You set them free.
And if that love was true,
When you love someone
It will all come back to you
---FORGET PARIS

I created my very own first breakup rule: Destroy
all pictures where he looks sexy and you look
happy. Breakup rule No. 2: Until emotionally
stabilized, enter no stores. Breakup rule No. 3:
Never stop thinking about him, even for a moment.
because that's the moment he'll appear. And
finally, the most important breakup rule: No matter
who broke your heart or how long it takes to heal,
you'll never get through it without your friends.
---Carrie, from the sitcom SEX AND THE CITY
" i miss you so much it hurts"
---SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE

"Half my days i cannot bear not to touch you,
the rest of the time i feel it doesn't matter
if i ever see you again. It isn't the mortality,
it is how much you can bear....."
---THE ENGLISH PATIENT

Do you believe in love? I bet you don't, you're
probably too sensible for that. Have you ever seen
someone and you know that if only that person
really know you, they'd dump the perfect model
they were with and realize that you are the one
they want to grow old with? Have you ever fallen in
love with someone you've never talked to? Have
you ever been so alone you spent the night
confusing a guy in a coma?
---WHILE YOU WERE SLEEPING

"anything less than mad, passionate, extraordinary
love is a waste of your time. there are too many
mediocre things in life to deal with and love
shouldn't be one of them."
---A DREAM FOR AN INSOMNIAC

Josie Geller: Sometime you'll kiss someone and
know that's the person you're supposed to kiss for
the rest of your life.
---NEVER BEEN KISSED

The only wrong thing would be to deny what your
heart truly feels.
---THE MASK OF ZORRO

You will see a lot of things,
But they will mean nothing to you
If you lose sight of the one you love.
---AT FIRST SIGHT

If you love someone you say it...
you say it right then, out loud...
or the moment just...passes you by.
---MY BEST FRIEND'S WEDDING

I would rather have had
One breath of her hair,
One kiss from her mouth,
One touch of her hand,
Than an eternity without it...
---CITY OF ANGELS

You will be doing anything
For the one you love...
Except love them again.
---FAITHFUL

Fate exists but it can only take you so far,
Because once you're there
It's up to you to make it happen.
---CAN'T HARDLY WAIT

When you've found that person you want to spend
the rest of ur life with, you want the rest of ur life to
begin right away."
---When Harry Met Sally

"Sometimes when you hold out for everything, you
walk away with nothing."
---Ally McBeal

I hate the way you talk to me And the way you cut
your hair.
I hate the way you drive my car.
I hate it when you stare.
I hate your big dumb combat boots
And the way you read my mind.
I hate you so much it makes me sick --
It even makes me rhyme.
I hate the way you're always right.
I hate it when you lie.
I hate it when you make me laugh --
Even worse when you make me cry.
I hate it that you're not around
And the fact that you didn't call.
But mostly I hate the way
I don't hate you --
Not even close, not even a little bit, not any at all.
---Kat Startford (10 Things I Hate About You)

"if two people are meant for each other, it doesnt
mean that they are meant for each other NOW."
---pacey whitter "DAWSON'S CREEK"

Lois: You know, if somebody had asked me three
days ago who the one person in the world I
admired most was, I'd have said you. But, without
really knowing what that meant. Without
understanding that the hardest thing about being
you is all the things you can't do. All the cries for
help that you can't answer, and how that quietly
tears you apart. But it never stops you. And after
living a little of that myself, I realized
something...something I never thought was
possible.
Clark: What?
Lois: I love you more. More than I ever have and
more than I ever thought I could love anyone, and
so, I wanna ask ... Will you marry me?
---LOIS AND CLARK

I know it's a cornball thing, but love is
passion,obsession, someone you can't live
without. If you don't start with that, what are you
going to end up with? I say fall head over heels.
Find someone you love like crazy and who'll love
you the same way back. And how do you find
him? Forget your head and listen to your heart...
Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back.
Because the truth is, there is no sense living your
life without this. To make the journey and not fall
deeply in love well, you haven't lived a life at all.
You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you
haven't lived... Stay open. Who knows? Lightning
could strike.
---MEET JOE BLACK

Man: "Will you love me for the rest of my life?"
Woman: "I will love you for the rest of mine."
---PHENOMENON

I guarantee it won't be easy
I guarantee that at one point or another
One of us is going to want to leave.
But I also guarantee that
If I don't ask you to be mine
I am going to regret it
For the rest of my life
Because I know in my heart
You are the only one for me.
---RUNAWAY BRIDE

"The only feeling of real loss is when you love
someone, more than you love yourself."
---GOOD WILL HUNTING

You cannot find true love where it does not truly
exist. And you cannot hide it where it truly does.
---KISSING A FOOL

The Game People Play

noreply@blogspirit.com (22) — Sun, 29 May 2005 03:30:00 +1000

I've been warned.

Right now I don't know what to feel, what to believe.

It started so well. I liked him, he liked me. We got close....and closer.

And now that he is leaving and there's not much time, he gives me an entirely different impression. I never imagined he is capable of being an aweful person. After everything. He even called me a friend. Friends never hurt each other - intentionally.

Now that I reached this point, I am swimming in a pool of varying emotions and beliefs.

- We were both into each other. It was wonderful. No regrets. He's just having a hard time reconciling the fact that he's leaving behind so much he's loved. It was wrong for me to demand his understanding at this time when he himself is wallowing in so much confusion.

-- He just took advantage of the fact that I like him. I was there. He's a pig. He'd eaten anything that comes his way. And now that I expressed my pain, he show me just what I am to him. Nothing - and even less.

--- He liked me. But was intimidated by me. So he never made a move. Then I made the move. We both got what we wanted. Then something happened along the way. Love comes and goes. I got hurt. He did not know how to handle the situation. He was just being honest and open. And I could'nt take all the honesty.

----It was ego. He took me in coz he liked the feeling of being liked. And I never loved him. It was the physical intimacy and the feeling of being admired. It was the illusion of romance. Even the excitement of doing something wrong. It was also a game for me. I just did not want to lose.

The emotions and thoughts just keep on coming. But the bottomline is, he did not treat me well. I never did anything that bad for him to treat me like that. A man, a friend, does not speak like that. He was unfair. He hurt me. And despite all that, I still wish we could be okay. I guess I really like him, or the thought of being with him. But this time, I will do what is logical and sane. No more risks. Definitely no more regrets. I'll just stay away. He said that's what he wanted right? So be it. But I bet he'll miss me. Whatever the denials, he'll miss having someone being there waiting for him. But I shouldn't care. And I won't. Not this time!

About Him Again....

noreply@blogspirit.com (22) — Fri, 29 Apr 2005 10:22:05 +1000

ok. i know i’ve been obsessing and whining but now i’m just plain happy. yes, finally!

i know that given the circumstances and all other factors – it’s apparent that he can’t be mine. but there’s something about us that keeps me happy despite all the impossibilities. there’s the attraction that’s always there. and the smallest signs of interest are enough to inspire me.

plus there’s this one night that i’ll never forget. and i hope it’s special for him too. it was so easy for us to forget that we were mad at each other. was it because we had too much to drink? i think not!

we’ve always liked each other. for more than a year, we’ve noticed each other, almost everyday. it was always nice to see him. and though it’s painful to think he loves another and will be leaving soon, it will always make me smile to know he likes me, gave me his time, and even for just once made me part of him.

Mr. Brightside (The Killers)

noreply@blogspirit.com (22) — Fri, 29 Apr 2005 09:48:51 +1000

I'm coming out of my cage
And I’ve been doing just fine
Gotta gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all
It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this
It was only a kiss, it was only a kiss
Now I’m falling asleep
And she’s calling a cab
While he’s having a smoke
And she’s taking a drag
Now they’re going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it’s all in my head
But she’s touching his—chest
Now, he takes off her dress
Now, let me go

I just can’t look its killing me
And taking control
Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibis
But it’s just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
‘Cause I’m Mr Brightside

I’m coming out of my cage
And I’ve been doing just fine
Gotta gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all
It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this
It was only a kiss, it was only a kiss
Now I’m falling asleep
And she’s calling a cab
While he’s having a smoke
And she’s taking a drag
Now they’re going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it’s all in my head
But she’s touching his—chest
Now, he takes off her dress
Now, let me go

I just can’t look its killing me
And taking control
Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibi
But it’s just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
‘Cause I’m Mr Brightside

I never...
I never...
I never...

Obsession

noreply@blogspirit.com (22) — Fri, 29 Apr 2005 09:28:48 +1000

Obsession (No Es Amor)

(Check check ...this happened for real ...baby bash..yo.. frankie j.... obession)

Its early in the morning
And my heart is really lonely
Just thinkin bout you baby
Got me twisted in the head
And I dont know how to take it
But its driving me so crazy
I dont know if its right
I'm tossin turning in my bed
Its 5 oclock in the morning
And I still cant sleep
Thinkin bout your beauty it makes me
Weak...
I'm feeling hopeless in my home
I dont know what to do but I think I'm in love
Baby...

[Chorus]
Amor, no es amor (if this aint love)
Then what am I feeling (what am I doing wrong)
Amor, no es amor (if this aint love)
Is this an illusion that I have in my heart?

Now I know you're not my lady I'm just tryin to make this right
I dont know what to do I'm going out of my mind
So baby if u let me could I getchu to say maybe we could ride together
We could do this all nite now I dont care if u got a man
Baby I wish you'd understand
Cuz I kno he cant love u right, quite like I can
Its 5 oclock in the morning
And I still cant sleep
Thinkin bout your beauty it makes me
Weak...
I'm feeling hopeless at home
I dont kno what to do but I think I'm in love

[Chorus]
Amor, no es amor (if this aint love)
Then what am I feeling? (what am I doing wrong)
Amor, no es amor (if this aint love)
Is this an illusion that I have in my heart?
I love the way u freaky like that
I love the way u freaky like that
I love the way u freaky like that
Its an obsession

[Baby Bash]
Hold up let me dream
Shorty got me feelin less supreme
Where my candy, where my cream
Got your boy feel less supreme
Hold up wait a minute baby you so damn independent
Loving everything your representing
Got alot of money, I love to spend it
And thats whats up and I dont care what people scream
You're my blessin when I'm stressin
My superfly beauty queen
I'm gonna keep it saucy
Cuz my money know how I do, we go rendez-vous, mi corazon belongs to you

[Chorus]
Amor, no es amor (if this aint love)
Then what am I feeling? (what am I doing wrong) what am I do wrong [echo]
Amor, no es amor (if this aint love)
Is this an illusion that I have in my heart?
Amor, no es amor (if this aint love)
What am I feeling? (what am I doing wrong?) what am I do so wrong? [echo]
Amor, no es amor (if this aint love)
Is this an illusion that I have in my heart?

Amor

Almost Here (Delta Goodrem and Brian McFadden)

noreply@blogspirit.com (22) — Fri, 29 Apr 2005 09:21:03 +1000

Brian:
Did I hear you right?
Cause I thought you said
Let's think it over
You have been my life
And I never planned
Growing old without you

Shadows bleeding through the light
Where the love once shined so bright
Came without a reason
Don't let go on us tonight
Love's not always black and white
Haven't I always loved you?

Delta:
But when I need you
You're almost here
And I know that's not enough
And when I'm with you
I'm close to tears
'cause your only almost here

Brian:
I would change the world
If I had a chance
Oh won't you let me
Treat me like a child
Throw your arms around me
Oh please protect me

Brian & Delta:
Bruise and battered by your words
Days are shattered, now it hurts
Brian:
Oh, haven't I always loved you?

Delta:
But when I need you
You're almost here
And I know that's not enough
And when I'm with you
I'm close to tears
'cause your only almost here

Brian & Delta:
Bruise and battered by your words
dazed and shattered, now it hurts
Brian:
Haven't I always loved you?

Delta:
But when I need you
You're almost here
Brian:
Well I never knew how far behind I'd left you
Delta:
And when I hold you
You're almost here
Brian:
Well I'm sorry that I took our love for granted

Brian & Delta:
And now I'm with you
I'm close to tears
Brian:
Cause I know I'm almost here

Brian & Delta:
Only almost here